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Why You Need to be Alone Once in Awhile

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Illustration by Maurice Sendak from Open House for Butterflies by Ruth Krauss

Society today frowns on individuals who want some alone time now and then. Consequently people can’t seem to be alone, or quite and relaxed anymore, without others thinking something is wrong with them.

Curiously, and importantly, mastering the art of quite solitude doesn’t make us more antisocial but, to the contrary, better able to connect with others.

By being intimate with our own inner life – that frightening and often foreign landscape that philosopher Martha Nussbaum so eloquently urged us to explore despite our fear – frees us to reach greater, more dimensional intimacy with others.

That paradox is what British author Sara Maitland explores in How to Be Alone(public library) The five rewards to be reaped from unlearning our culturally conditioned fear of aloneness and learning how to “do” solitude well are:

1. A deeper consciousness of oneself

2. A deeper attunement to nature

3. A deeper relationship with the transcendent (the numinous, the divine, the spiritual)

4. Increased creativity

5. An increased sense of freedom

Of all people, only those who can be at leisure of mind, can be still for a period daily, who make time for philosophy – only those are really alive. SCM

Steve Monahan
http://www.SteveMonahan.me

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STEVEN MONAHAN amazon.com/author/stevenmonahan Steven is writer and author. His books are; The One Thing 66 Day Workbook, Chasing Love, Rescue Renew Rehome, How to Think Outside the Box, Special editions of Ralph Waldo Emerson's Self-Reliance and the Constitution of the United States of America & Declaration of Independence. All available on Amazon and other book stores. Visit Steve’s Amazon Author page at amazon.com/author/stevenmonahan Steven is also Founder & Executive Director of Ideas Institute Georgia. Additionally, he is the founder of The Green Pets America Foundation. Steven was recognized by the State of Georgia and City of Woodstock for tireless contributions to Georgia’s people and animals.

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